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These
are
good
,
important
opportunities
that
we
consistently
pass
up
because
they
threaten
to
change
how
we
view
and
feel
about
ourselves
.
They
threaten
the
values
that
we
’
ve
chosen
and
have
learned
to
live
up
to
.
I
had
a
friend
who
,
for
the
longest
time
,
talked
about
putting
his
artwork
online
and
trying
to
make
a
go
of
it
as
a
professional
(
or
at
least
semiprofessional
)
artist
.
He
talked
about
it
for
years
;
he
saved
up
money
;
he
even
built
a
few
different
websites
and
uploaded
his
portfolio
.
But
he
never
launched
.
There
was
always
some
reason
:
the
resolution
on
his
work
wasn
’
t
good
enough
,
or
he
had
just
painted
something
better
,
or
he
wasn
’
t
in
a
position
to
dedicate
enough
time
to
it
yet
.
Years
passed
and
he
never
did
give
up
his
“
real
job
.
”
Why
?
Because
despite
dreaming
about
making
a
living
through
his
art
,
the
real
potential
of
becoming
An
Artist
Nobody
Likes
was
far
,
far
scarier
than
remaining
An
Artist
Nobody
’
s
Heard
Of
.
At
least
he
was
comfortable
with
and
used
to
being
An
Artist
Nobody
’
s
Heard
Of
.
I
had
another
friend
who
was
a
party
guy
,
always
going
out
drinking
and
chasing
girls
.
After
years
of
living
the
“
high
life
,
”
he
found
himself
terribly
lonely
,
depressed
,
and
unhealthy
.
He
wanted
to
give
up
his
party
lifestyle
.
He
spoke
with
a
fierce
jealousy
of
those
of
us
who
were
in
relationships
and
more
“
settled
down
”
than
he
was
.
Yet
he
never
changed
.
For
years
he
went
on
,
empty
night
after
empty
night
,
bottle
after
bottle
.
Always
some
excuse
.
Always
some
reason
he
couldn
’
t
slow
down
.
Giving
up
that
lifestyle
threatened
his
identity
too
much
.
The
Party
Guy
was
all
he
knew
how
to
be
.
To
give
that
up
would
be
like
committing
psychological
hara
-
kiri
.
We
all
have
values
for
ourselves
.
We
protect
these
values
.
We
try
to
live
up
to
them
and
we
justify
them
and
maintain
them
.
Even
if
we
don
’
t
mean
to
,
that
’
s
how
our
brain
is
wired
.
As
noted
before
,
we
’
re
unfairly
biased
toward
what
we
already
know
,
what
we
believe
to
be
certain
.
If
I
believe
I
’
m
a
nice
guy
,
I
’
ll
avoid
situations
that
could
potentially
contradict
that
belief
.
If
I
believe
I
’
m
an
awesome
cook
,
I
’
ll
seek
out
opportunities
to
prove
that
to
myself
over
and
over
again
.
The
belief
always
takes
precedence
.
Until
we
change
how
we
view
ourselves
,
what
we
believe
we
are
and
are
not
,
we
cannot
overcome
our
avoidance
and
anxiety
.
We
cannot
change
.
In
this
way
,
“
knowing
yourself
”
or
“
finding
yourself
”
can
be
dangerous
.
It
can
cement
you
into
a
strict
role
and
saddle
you
with
unnecessary
expectations
.
It
can
close
you
off
to
inner
potential
and
outer
opportunities
.
